One of the arguments that my pro-choice friends make in favor of abortion is that they say pro-lifers
only care about the life in the womb and not the life of a baby after birth. The implication here is that couples faced
with an unplanned pregnancy and who cannot or would not properly care for the
baby once it is born should be allowed to abort because there would be no one to
love and nurture a small child. To the uneducated, this appears to be a sound
argument. After all, the lack of care for
a small child born into a situation in which it was unwanted in the first place
would be harmful and dangerous for the child.
And so the child should be denied birth and allowed to be killed and
removed from the womb by an abortion provider.
In a perfect pro-life world, all human life has dignity and is
wanted and respected. But we don’t live
in a perfect pro-life world. Pre-born
human life is the life we hear the most about because such life is the most
vulnerable and killing this life is accepted and sought by many. The pre-born are hidden from the rest of the
world. No one has seen a pre-born human being
(except via x-rays, sonograms, and heartbeats) and some believe that they
should not have the dignity nor the “wanted” and “respect” labels until their
bodies appear before us in their fully dignified form on their birth day. And so this is the form of human life that
gets the most attention from the pro-life community. But that is not to say that post-birth life is
totally ignored and forgotten. Quite the
contrary.
Pro-life communities, particularly religious communities,
have social programs that give counselling and support to pregnant women, even
protection from disagreeable husbands or boyfriends. And after birth, these protections extend to
the families. Beyond this, adoption is a
viable option. I understand that there
are many childless couples that have tried, but cannot conceive. These couples are crying out for a baby and
adoption agencies should be considered. Indeed,
post-birth life is important to the pro-life community and should not be
falsely portrayed.
But beyond all of this is that word “dignity.” Human life is above all animal life and plant
life. We have intelligence. We have ingenuity. We make amazing things happen. We have come the farthest of all creatures
through the evolutionary chain. Even if
you don’t profess a particular religious belief, it is simply beneath our
dignity to be killing our pre-birth life just as much as it is beneath our
dignity to be killing post-birth life.
My dream is that we will eventually all agree on these things rather
than to think of ourselves as simply another animal that we can kill at
will. God help us! Amen!
1)(So called) pro-lifes take the hypocritical position that all forms of birth control is abortion, against gods will what ever.
ReplyDeleteThis position is simply not supported by the facts.
2) Not all pre-born will ever turn into a perfectly formed baby. There as many genetic defects that simply don't support life. And forcing the Mother and fetus to go full term is unjustified torture.
3) Many pregnancies miscarry (naturally abort). Not anybodies fault (except maybe gods). But there are those in the (so called) pro-life movement who assume guilt (abortion) until proven otherwise (miscarriage). There a women in prison today in Central America because the Dr turn them in. This is were the pro-life movement is going. Punishmen first based on assumption that dont apply to the real world.